Spain 2007
A womans view on swinging.
Hello, I do not claim to be a writer so excuse any bad english or spelling
in this artical. I sent it in to the adult costa webmaster as i know him personaly
and just wanted to air my views as a female now into the "lifestyle".
I have included some links of some articals that helped relax my way
of thinking and helped me enjoy my sexuality more.
Swinging can be a fun way of relaxing , meeting people and enhancing your sex life. It is not just about sex but more of a lifestyle where you get to meet all sorts of interesting people.Its a way of thinking and for many a solution to many of the problems the traditional relationship holds. But for many women just the mention of swinging from a boyfriend or husband can bring out the worst. It can send thoughts of "oh i am not good enough for him" , "why does he want to sleep with other people", the thought of it can seem "seedy" and discusting.
But hold on , give him a break , have you ever thought he could be right ! I was in the same situation myself and now i attend swingers parties regular as clockwork ! When my husband first mentioned his interest in it, my first reactions were almost divorce material , but then i had the girly talk with a friend and was shocked to find out
my best friend and her husband were into the lifestyle themselves! She encourages me to not be so hard on him and look into thing myself, keeping an open mind. I guess i was lucky as now i have joined a wonderfull lifestyle where myself and my husband have met lots of lovely people and had some wonderfull times.I also know know that many of the women who were talked into it are now more keen folowers than the men. I cant say i have not seen couples have a rocky relationship in the lifestyle (although mine has improved no end), but
i can say that it is certainly less than for couples that follow the traditional relationship. I think this is down to the fact that swingers tend to be more open and honest with each other , never have anything to hide from each other and are more satisfied and relaxed in life. We have so many great friends in our relaxed lifestyle. Here are some links that helped me see through some of the issues that first put me off swinging.
Responsible Non-Monogamy
The true Swinging guide
Jealousy and Swinging
Hello, I do not claim to be a writer so excuse any bad english or spelling
in this artical. I sent it in to the adult costa webmaster as i know him personaly
and just wanted to air my views as a female now into the "lifestyle".
I have included some links of some articals that helped relax my way
of thinking and helped me enjoy my sexuality more.
Swinging can be a fun way of relaxing , meeting people and enhancing your sex life. It is not just about sex but more of a lifestyle where you get to meet all sorts of interesting people.Its a way of thinking and for many a solution to many of the problems the traditional relationship holds. But for many women just the mention of swinging from a boyfriend or husband can bring out the worst. It can send thoughts of "oh i am not good enough for him" , "why does he want to sleep with other people", the thought of it can seem "seedy" and discusting.
But hold on , give him a break , have you ever thought he could be right ! I was in the same situation myself and now i attend swingers parties regular as clockwork ! When my husband first mentioned his interest in it, my first reactions were almost divorce material , but then i had the girly talk with a friend and was shocked to find out
my best friend and her husband were into the lifestyle themselves! She encourages me to not be so hard on him and look into thing myself, keeping an open mind. I guess i was lucky as now i have joined a wonderfull lifestyle where myself and my husband have met lots of lovely people and had some wonderfull times.I also know know that many of the women who were talked into it are now more keen folowers than the men. I cant say i have not seen couples have a rocky relationship in the lifestyle (although mine has improved no end), but
i can say that it is certainly less than for couples that follow the traditional relationship. I think this is down to the fact that swingers tend to be more open and honest with each other , never have anything to hide from each other and are more satisfied and relaxed in life. We have so many great friends in our relaxed lifestyle. Here are some links that helped me see through some of the issues that first put me off swinging.
Responsible Non-Monogamy
The true Swinging guide
Jealousy and Swinging
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