Good sex needs good communication, learn more here

So the key to giving good orgasm??
Like many things in a relationship communication, communication, communication!
Talk to your partner about what they like and encourage them to listen to what you like. Communicate during sex; ask you partner if you are touching them right, let your partner guide your hands to the right places.

Talk to each other about what you would like the other one to do to you.

Try to find out your partners sexual fantisies,and keep an open mind together.

If you are able to crack the communication barrier and start to understand your partner as an individual person you can explore each other’s fantasies more. Your lover may be in love with you, but you need to also accept that they are a normal person and have many thoughts and fantasies in life, as you do. However sexual thoughts and fantasies are often held back even in close relationships. We have serious trouble relating to the true fantasy of our partners and we tend not to want to know certain things exist in their heads, that, for instance our partner may even still fancy other people!!!! Shock horror!! However if you were able to talk openly about your partner’s fantasies while you enjoy sex with them, then you would notice a huge improvement on how easy it is to get them to climax. Sex and good satisfying orgasm requires a balance of not only physical but also mental stimulation. If you were able to talk openly with your partner about all their fantasies and people they may fantasise about, with out jealousy or shame, then you would have reached the ultimate plane with your partner. Talking openly and understandingly with each other about sexual fantasy can be very erotic and taking that to
the bedroom can lead to explosive sex. Allowing your lover to be turned on by talking about his or her thoughts and fantasy not just expecting they should only be turned on by you alone, can get them very horny and far easier to satisfy. One problem! To do this you need to be able to accept your partner, as a person that may have very different ideas and fantasies about sex, than you do. They may wish to talk about their lust for another person, maybe someone you really did not except, or they may have a fantasy about trying out a fetish etc. It is very hard for many people to reach this ultimate level of communication with their partners. Jealousy has a huge part to play in this when it comes to sharing fantasy about other people; some couples even find it hard to watch a porno movie together. People can become so so jealous to think their partner is becoming aroused by another person. Sadly the honest truth is many people simply do not know or understand the person they are with, even if they think they do, because certain thoughts and feelings, that are a part of every person, sort of get blacklisted within a relationship. Just because you are with each other it does not mean that these thoughts and fantasies do not exist anymore.
The other problem is we find it hard to tell our partners everything we think about sexually, for fear of this very same reaction, so we tend to keep things to ourselves. Bottom line is accept your partner as a person, enjoy some fantasy together, ask each other what you like done and how you like it done, be open and honest and you will be on the right road to giving some really powerful orgasms.

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